There's a great book called Everyone is Normal Until You Get to Know Them, and we need to think the same way about companies. From the outside, those name-brand companies seem like they must be efficient and smart (and in many ways they are), but they have problems just like everyone else. Look at any company long enough and closely enough and you'll see all sorts of weird things they do.

Remember, no big company ever got to be where they are by doing things the way they do them now. (That's an old saying I just made up.)

From my time at IBM, I realized that there are many advantages from being big, but many disadvantages, too. For example, it can take a very long time to get everyone mobilized around a change, but once you get over the hump, you have huge leverage to make things happen. I remember that it took almost six months to even get started with search marketing at ibm.com, but a year into the project it was worth tens of millions in added revenue.

I think that people in small companies enjoy hearing that big companies are clueless. I mean, all companies are clueless sometimes, but we pass along the stories of big company dopiness because it's more entertaining. And the fact that people will make fun of their mistakes is one of the things that makes it braver for people at big companies to try the big experiment. I tell people to Do It Wrong Quickly, but at big companies, many people are afraid to ever make a mistake, because people will talk about it.

So, if you are working in a big company, or with a big company, give them a break. Don't expect that they will have it together just because they are big. Big companies have just as much trouble to adjust to Internet marketing as small ones do. In fact. the adjustment is harder for big companies because their past success gives them so much more to lose.

We all need to take the brave step of moving past the past. If you work for a big company, it's a bigger step and a step more fraught with risk than for smaller companies. And how come nothing is ever fraught with anything good, anyway? Maybe this whole Internet marketing thing needs to be considered a "fraught exercise." Every action is fraught with danger, but the only way to success is to try as many of those actions as possible. Keep trying and some things will start to work. Even in a big company.